What others think
Fear of being judged, of bothering people, of saying something silly; difficulty speaking in a group or standing up for yourself.
Self-confidence
That little voice saying “you’ll never manage” is not the truth about you. It has a history — and it can change.
You constantly compare yourself to others. You don’t dare speak up, ask or refuse. A compliment makes you uncomfortable, a criticism haunts you for days. Or perhaps, from the outside, everything seems fine — but inside, you feel you are never “enough”.
A lack of self-confidence does not only weigh on your mood: it holds back your plans, your working life and your relationships. And it cannot be fixed by telling yourself to be confident. This image of yourself was built through experiences — hurtful remarks, comparisons, teasing, failures, bullying — that your unconscious took seriously.
So that is where we will work, so that it stops making you doubt yourself.
Does this sound like you?
Fear of being judged, of bothering people, of saying something silly; difficulty speaking in a group or standing up for yourself.
Impostor feelings, exhausting perfectionism, decisions put off, projects never started.
Difficulty saying no, setting boundaries, asking for what you need — with your partner, your family or at work.
If fear of being assessed is what dominates, see also fear of exams and oral tests.
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